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Back to School with Clean & Clear

This is a sponsored conversation written by me on behalf of CLEAN & CLEAR and #WeAllGrow Latina Network. The opinions and text are all mine.

Our crazy summer schedule is about to come to an end soon.

The morning traffic will once again be speckled with buses and busy parents chauffeuring their kids to school.

El Teenybopper will soon say goodbye to endless hours of video games and running outside with his friends until the sun comes down.

He will say “Hello” to his classical academy, lots of work and challenging his mind.

So we’ve decided to have one more summer camping trip.

As for back to school prepping, all of our prepping and shopping was done early.

There was just one thing left.

His skincare routine.

I know what it was like being a teen and obsessing over my skin.

Just one blemish and your day was ruined.

Between the hormones and the crazy “world is going to end” overly dramatic emotions, I knew I needed to be prepared.

Now, I’m all about teaching my kids about power. When you feel powerful, you look at life through a different lens.

I am talking about the kind of power that you feel when taking control of a situation and doing everything you can to achieve the outcome you desire.

For his skin, that means using the right products and establishing a skincare routine that will equip him with the best chances for healthy skin.

This will, in turn, make it easier for him to avoid the stress of blemishes and feeling self conscious.

So, I decided to teach him about good skincare while we were on our camping trip. What better time?

I give you, our 3-Step teenybopper skincare routine with CLEAN & CLEAR®:

Teenybopper Morning Skincare Routine Step One

His daily routine will start with CLEAN & CLEAR® MORNING BURST® Facial Cleanser which is a gel cleanser formulated with effective cleansers and vitamin-enriched BURSTING BEADS® to awaken skin.  It is available at retails stores nationwide for $5.49.

1. His routine will start with clean hands that he will use to splash water on his face.
2. Grab the CLEAN & CLEAR® MORNING BURST® Facial Cleanser.
3. Squeeze a small amount of cleanser onto his wet palms.
4. Work into a lather.
5. Place the foamy cleanser onto his face and gently swirl it around.
6. Feel the awesomeness of the BURSTING BEADS®.
7. Rinse face thoroughly and pat dry with a towel.
8. Throw one of those handsome, sometimes goofy teenybopper grins at yourself.

Teenybopper Morning Skincare Routine Step Two (2-3 times per week)

He will be using CLEAN & CLEAR^® Deep Action 60 Second Shower Face Mask which is designed to work with the steam of your shower to deeply, but gently exfoliate away traces of dirt, oil and dead skin that can clog pores.  This is available for $6.89.

1. Apply the mask evenly on your entire face.
2. Let the mask sit on your face for 60 seconds. You can continue your other shower tasks while you wait.
3. After the 60 seconds is up, gently massage your face as you rinse the mask off completely.
4. If any gets in your eyes, just rinse. No worries.
5. Enjoy the feeling of taking control over your skincare.

Teenybopper Morning Skincare Routine Step Three (daily or 2-3 times per week)

Step three will consist of CLEAN & CLEAR^® Deep Action Exfoliating Scrub which cleanses deep down into pores, working to dissolve dirt, oil and impurities while exfoliating dead skin cells.  While he can use this daily as well, this teenybopper will start with 2 to 3 times per week. This is available for $4.99.

1. Wet face.
2. Gently massage all over your face.
3. Avoid your eyes. Yes I HAVE to tell him this, because he is a teenager, after all.
4. Enjoy the tingly, cool feeling of the menthol working its magic.
5. Rinse thoroughly and pat dry.
6. Take a good look at that healthy, clean face and give yourself a wink.

Next lesson: learn how to rinse your face without soaking your shirt. Seriously.

Mami’s work is done for the day.

Another life lesson is on the books.

Now it’s back to learning how to build a campfire.

One more thing. I’m glad I’m documenting just how awesome I am so that he can thoroughly thank me when he gets older.

 

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Never Been a Loser? You’re Missing Out!

We did it!

Our baseball team won the league championship!

The score was 11-2.

The boys played an amazing game and every. single. boy. had a part in the win.

After the game was over, the losing team challenged the win alleging that we benched four of our players which is not allowed.

We were floored.

Not only did that not happen, but could you imagine the complaints that would have come from our parents if any of their kids were benched?

It was the worst display of being a sore loser I have ever witnessed.

And that is saying a lot.

I have been involved in baseball with both my boys for 17 years.

My oldest, who is now 27 was coached by his dad and I was team mom since he was 10.

We even did commissioner duty for a bit.

Now the teenybopper plays and hubby and our oldest coach him while I have been gladly performing team mom duties once again for the last couple of seasons.

We have been both the worst and best teams with both boys.

Frankly, we’ve been somewhere in the middle most of the time.

Being the best and winning a championship is awesome and really fun for the boys.

But being the losing team has also been amazing for them.

And I don’t mean “participation trophy” losing team. I don’t believe in participation trophies. I believe in the lessons you receive.

Those are your trophies.

These lessons are essential for building character and succeeding in life.

How you lose is important

The losing team for this particular game did this so poorly that I was embarrassed for the boys. The head coach who was used to always winning decided to accuse us of cheating with a rule violation. There was no rule violation and it was just poor character on his part.

Our kids earned the 11-2 score with exemplary sportsmanship while the opposing team characterized their loss with not shaking hands at the end of the game, the coach casting verbal slurs and making verbal threats towards anther coach and the parents saying mean and hateful things.

Can you imagine how this will translate for them into adulthood?

What do you do when you are let go of a job due to layoffs and budget cuts? Do you stomp your feet and complain and burn all bridges?

Or do you go home, lick your wounds and keep your relationships intact in case someone from your former job happens to need to hire someone at a new company?

The old saying, “It’s who you know,” is the truest thing I have learned in business.

Burn bridges and you burn opportunities.

Losing teaches you to work harder

Another disservice that was done to the kids on the opposing team was not teaching them to work harder. By letting them assume that the win was robbed from them, they also mistakenly assumed that they didn’t need to work at anything.

When you fail at something, all it means is you have work to do.

Every single person who has succeeded at something has failed many times before they experienced success.

That is the very essence of failure.

It teaches you to work harder and smarter.

There is no joy in winning without losing.

If you are always a winner, the sweet taste of victory is just not as sweet. That is why everyone loves the story of the underdog winning.

We all know what it’s like to be that underdog.

Even the greatest athletes agree. When I saw Serena Williams speak at BlogHer this summer, one of the important things spoke about was the value of losing and how it made her work harder and made success much better.

Losing teaches you to be a gracious winner.

This is a big one!

Yes, we won. Yes I am celebrating and announcing it from the rooftops because I am proud.

But I am also proud of our entire team and how they handled the situation with the opposing team who had been the winners for the past 2 or 3 years.

We were the underdog and our boys acted graciously because they have also been the losing team and worked really hard to win.

They acted graciously because it is the right thing to do.

They acted graciously because our parents were amazing and did their jobs.

Our players went to shake hands with the other team members, and even though most of them refused to return the handshake, our boys held their dignity and did not react and continued to thank them for a good game.

Our parents and players stepped aside and allowed our coaches to discuss the allegations with the commissioner while the other coach involved the players and parents in a swarm onto the field with the commissioner. The behavior and language from the coaches, parents and players were ridiculous, bad form and just plain sad.

In the end, the truth prevailed and our team was rightfully announced the winners.

But the truth is, we were winners in other, more important departments which will enable our boys to go into the world and slay their dragons.

Sometimes they will win and other times they will lose.

But they will always be equipped with grace, manners and the gumption to get back up and work harder for what they want.

And THAT is truly winning.

 

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